
“User” or “Manggagamit”? BPO Employee Seeks Advice on Ending a Secret Affair with a Gorgeous Trainer
Makati City, Philippines – A tale of forbidden love unfolds within the walls of a prominent BPO company in BGC, Taguig. A mysterious employee, whose identity shall remain hidden, has come forward seeking advice on how to gracefully extricate himself from a clandestine romance with his beautiful trainer.
The shocking revelation has ignited a storm of opinions in a Facebook group for BPO people, where Facebook users didn’t hold back their candid thoughts.
Dubbed a “user” and “manggagamit” by some outspoken netizens, the BPO employee found himself under scrutiny as his story captured the attention of intrigued readers.
One Facebook commenter cheekily quipped, “Pakilala mo si trainer sa akin. Nagmamahal, VA freelancer…” suggesting a potential romantic interest in the trainer from another industry professional.
Another wise commenter cut to the chase, advising, “Stop playing guessing games. Talk to her.”
In his heartfelt letter, the troubled BPO employee spilled the beans on his whirlwind journey, starting from that fateful encounter in the bustling Market Market of BGC Taguig on January 12, 2023. Captivated by the allure of a headhunter, he was promptly recruited by a renowned BPO company, despite his lack of experience. The excitement of his newfound career, coupled with the icy atmosphere, paled in comparison to meeting the woman who would later become his trainer.
During breaks and lunches, their connection grew stronger as the trainer showered him with attention. The BPO employee reminisced, “Maganda, maputi, sexy at sobrang ganda ng boses,” describing his trainer’s captivating charm. Even after training sessions, she would go the extra mile, offering to carry his belongings. A gesture that ignited the flickering flame of attraction.
With time, their bond deepened, and the BPO employee felt comfortable sharing his life story with her. He revealed his modest existence in the mountains (could be province?) and even disclosed his involvement in local male pageants, both in the mountains and the bustling capital of Manila. Perhaps it was his charm or his confidence that captivated her heart.
In a surprising turn of events, the trainer made a proposition that would forever change their lives. Sensing his living arrangements were less than ideal, she offered him a place under her roof. Tempted by the prospect of a fresh start, he reluctantly accepted, ignorant of the fate that awaited him.
The once blissful days took a sudden detour as the trainer’s behavior underwent a perplexing transformation. Stricter rules were imposed, and the BPO employee found himself under constant surveillance, even with a new manager in place.
“Gusto niya after Shift ko, derecho bahay lang ako,” he lamented, hinting at the restrictive measures imposed upon him.

In a candid confession, the BPO employee acknowledged that they weren’t officially a couple but admitted to frequently engaging in intimate encounters. He now finds himself torn between ending the illicit affair and the fear of retribution. His dedication to the company and the imminent regularization in July further complicate matters.
In a plea to fellow BPO employees who might have experienced similar predicaments, he implored, “Sa mga taga BPO diyan na nakaranas sa nararanasan ko ngayon, sana tulungan niyo ako.” After six months of clandestine rendezvous with his trainer, he yearns to sever the ties that bind them.
As the BPO community buzzes with anticipation, will this star-crossed duo find their way out of the tangled web of desire? Or will they succumb to the allure of secrecy? Only time will tell.
Stay tuned to The Intrigue Insider for more updates on this gripping tale of love and the trials faced by BPO employees in pursuit of happiness!
- Source: The Call Center Confessions