For some surprising and ironic reason, a particular topic has taken Twitter by storm, captivating the attention of thousands of netizens and generating intense discourse.
The hashtag #ToxicFilipinoCulture has emerged as a trending topic, amassing over 4,000 tweets and counting. While Poland, television shows, and boycott campaigns dominate the Philippine Twitterverse, the allure of uncovering the essence behind this trend proves irresistible.
Let us embark on an exploration of the various facets of what netizens consider toxic within Filipino culture.
Unraveling the Key Elements
One recurring theme in the discussions revolves around the concept of “utang na loob” or “debt of gratitude.”
Interestingly, it is Space Lily (@PilsShe), a Twitter user with a modest following, who has become a catalyst for this conversation. Their thought-provoking post has amassed over 3,700 likes and garnered 27 responses.
Space Lily tweeted, “Utang na loob is a toxic Filipino culture… Your children don’t owe you anything, you owe them everything.” This statement, however, has invited contrasting viewpoints from other members of the Twitterverse.
Aeries (@Arya_Aeries) presented an alternative perspective, emphasizing that “utang na loob” serves as a reminder to remain humble and acknowledge one’s roots, even amidst personal success. They shared their experience of receiving support not only from parents but also from relatives and friends during challenging times.
Aeries tweeted: “For me, ‘utang na loob’ is a reminder to remain humble and lumingon pa rin sa pinanggalingan kahit successful ka na sa buhay mo ngayon.”
Rin Tohsaka Gab (mrkcgrstnlgdr) concurred, emphasizing the importance of expressing gratitude towards those who have provided love, care, and guidance throughout one’s life. “”Masarap tumanaw ng utang na loob sa taong nagbigay sayo ng pagmamahal at aruga.” he tweeted.
The discussion soon veered into the realm of politics.
Zen Nepomuceno (@KUglyton) identified an “unwarranted sense of entitlement” and an inability to handle opposing opinions as toxic elements within Filipino culture.
“Toxic Filipino culture is an unwarranted sense of entitlement, or overly emotional, easily offended, and unable to deal with opposing opinions.” he posted.
This observation prompted a response from Lexmechanic Kimerian (LKimerian), who brought attention to sudden increases in real property taxes during the tenure of a specific political figure. The exchange highlighted the intersection of political discourse and cultural perceptions.
“Sure mate, have you tried looking into your Amilyar or Real Property Tax (RPT) and why they went up all of a sudden when BBM sat on the throne Oh nvm. It’s not like you have to pay them. You have a TRAPO surname after all lol,” Lexmechanic responded.
Further insights emerged as Twitter users delved deeper into the topic. An;Rest (@wheresgyv) pointed out the need for individuals to move beyond easily taking offense and engage constructively with opposing opinions.
Paul Sumayao shared his perspective by stating, “Toxic Filipino Culture? Electing the worst leaders into office.”
These comments shed light on the broader dynamics of cultural and political influences within the Filipino society.
Expanding on the Discussion
Chelsea (loiii_sel) introduced a fresh angle to the discourse, highlighting the tendency within Filipino culture to invalidate one’s feelings by comparing their experiences to past generations. This pressure to conform to outdated norms dismisses the advancements in technology and transportation that the present generation enjoys.
Ning (@maria_ning11) raised another aspect, questioning the unconditional loyalty demanded within family relationships, even in cases where support is absent or harm is inflicted.
“Toxic Filipino Culture: ‘Tatay mo pa rin siya.’ ‘Nanay mo pa rin siya.’ Even though that person never really provides anything or gave you trauma by hurting you, they are still your family,” she said. This sentiment struck a chord with many individuals who shared similar experiences, prompting a critical examination of the expectations surrounding family ties.
As the conversation broadened, additional toxic elements were identified, including hypocrisy, “plastikan” (pretentiousness), excessive borrowing for luxury expenses, dependency on others, falling prey to emotional manipulation, and getting embroiled in dramatic situations. These observations underscore the multifaceted nature of toxic cultural behaviors.
The trending hashtag #ToxicFilipinoCulture on Twitter has ignited insightful conversations and shed light on various aspects of Filipino society. As netizens engage in reflection and discourse, it serves as an opportunity to evaluate cultural norms critically. By recognizing and addressing toxic elements, society can progress toward a more inclusive and progressive future, fostering positive change within Filipino culture.
The Daily Netizen 